Be the example.

As a follower of Jesus I am to be the example setter. So when somebody wrongs me this is what God says to do:

Romans 12:21 

21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

I am to overcome the wrong things people may do or say to me by doing good to them. This is not easy but by the power of the Holy Spirit it can be done! Our flesh wants to react an an evil way back to someone who has done something to us, but we have POWER from God to overcome and do good!

Galatians 5:16 

16 I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.

So let us obey God, walk in the Spirit, and be like Jesus! Be the example for others to follow!

Tom